This one is fairly short. I pose a question for the men and for the ladies.
Ladies: Would you date a guy that weighed less than you?
Men: Would you date a woman that weighed more than you?
State of the Union: Curious
Listening to: If You Seek Amy by Britney Spears
Edited: February 27th, 2009
Does this mean that I’m a freak mama?
State of the Union: Tickled
Listening to: Our Song by Taylor Swift
Edited: August 23rd, 2008
So, in response to Splinter’s complaint, here is a nice and easy Question of the Day that he would approve of that doesn’t involve ethical decisions or father’s rights:
Would you marry a porn star? Why or why not?
State of the Union: Tickled
Listening to: Justify My Love by Madonna
Edited: August 23rd, 2008
I should be studying for the Lit test I have tomorrow. I should be figuring out how to fix the volume on my Dash. I can barely hear people when I’m talking on it, but you can hear my phone ringing in flipping Houston. I should also learn how to work the text messaging seeing as I just mass texted 20 people on accident with a question meant for Pete. Instead, I am sitting here listening to Clare go on about what a tramp one of our friends is because she had sex with a guy on the first date.
So, I bring the debate to you. My random question of the day is “Does it make a woman slutty if she sleeps with you on the first date?”
State of the Union: Exasperated
Listening to: “OMG, she’s such a whore!”
Edited: August 23rd, 2008
We were debating this all day long. I bring the debate to you. Who has more mileage on their cooter?
Lindsay or Paris? Weigh in.
State of the Union: Puzzled
Listening to: Bittersweet by Kanye West
Edited: August 18th, 2008
Two people that I know are carrying on with each other. I don’t think any sex has been had, but they eat lunch together just about everyday, they e-mail each other all day when they aren’t texting or on IM, and they speak on the phone everyday. The woman is married with four kids and the man has been living with him girlfriend for about ten years now. Even though they haven’t had sex yet, and we all know that it’s just a matter of time, are they cheating? Where is the line and what counts as crossing it?
State of the Union: Perplexed
Listening to: Broken by Lifehouse
Edited: August 18th, 2008
I ended up at the bar late, late last night for an impromptu party to celebrate Missy’s Birthday. (Happy Birthday, Dirty Whore!) It was jam packed and there were multiple hottie boys on the make. I am proud to say that I resisted my impulses to be the Make Out Bandit. (Big raspberry to all the naysayers that said I can’t resist temptation) There was a bit of drama that leads me to the Question of the Day.
David and Tawny (Yes, her mother was smoking crack when she named her) broke up recently. We all run in similar social circles, so it made it kinda awkward when they each showed up and stared death-daggers at each other across the table. Tawny did everything for this dude: she picked him up and dropped him off from work, she gave him money when his account went overdrawn, she spent her spare time with him, basically rearranged her life for him and did stuff to make his life easier. David is an okay dude, but a total user. Everyone that knows him knows that he’ll take whatever he can get and would probably sell out his own mother if there was enough in it for him. The only person that didn’t know this was Tawny. He didn’t ask her to do anything for him, but he didn’t tell her no or discourage her from it either. He has severe commitment issues, probably stemming from his hooker ex-girlfriend that has him strung out like a crackhead, but whatever.
The fight started when she introduced him at a party as her boyfriend, he looked at her like she was kind of nuts and changed the subject. She played it off, but they later got into a knock out, drag out about it.She feels like he used her. The only reason why she did all those things for him and stood by him and lent him money was because she thought that they were a couple. Boyfriend and girlfriend. (Off topic sort of, but when did men stop *officially* asking women to be their girlfriends? Do you know how many times I got in trouble for giving out my number to another guy when I thought we were dating, but he thought we were a couple?) He maintains that he never said they were together and that they were just dating. The girls are saying that she was a fool for putting up with him and that he was wrong for not clarifying what the deal was months ago. The guys are saying that it’s not his fault for her reading more into it than what it was.
Now, I have to listen to both of them ranting about the other one and each is asking me to take sides. She’s hurt that I’m not taking her side, seeing as I was in her place a while ago, but it’s not my fight and I refuse to get involved. I’m crazy, not stupid, but I put it to you, O World of Ever-Knowing Bloggers, who is right and who is wrong? Weigh in.
State of the Union: Unsure
Listening to: Ser or Parecer by RBD
Edited: August 4th, 2008
I’m typing this as I’m shoring up my friend’s confidence about his sexual prowess. Seems his ladylove broke up with him yesterday. She slept with him one last time and then dumped him. I’m friends with both of them and I am privy to some information he doesn’t know that I know.
She faked it with him, more than once, and then, towards the end, she told me she stopped doing even that. She told me that she let him think it was bigger than what it is is reality, she led him to believe that the sex was better than what it was in reality, and she carried on like it was the best she ever had, when in reality, it was none of the above. I’ve listened to him rave about it in the past and I can say that she truly put in an Oscar winning performance. I asked her why she kept sleeping with him if it was that bad and she told me that it was because she liked to watch him and listen to him. She would spend days at a time at his house and she felt like she owed it to him to “hook him up” for the hospitality.
So now, I have him on the phone, and I have taken on the role of the faker because I have to pretend that I know nothing and that it just *couldn’t* be the sex. Now I have become the liar because I know for a fact that she slept with him to practice her skills for the new guy she’s about to hook up with and that she fantasized about other men and women while she was with him.
My question for all the men out there is this: Do we propel the lie and let you think that it was great, or should we women tell the truth and shut you down?
Edited: July 20th, 2008
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